{"id":1163,"date":"2023-10-30T22:15:07","date_gmt":"2023-10-31T05:15:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/werebear.net\/main\/?p=1163"},"modified":"2023-10-30T22:15:07","modified_gmt":"2023-10-31T05:15:07","slug":"haunted-waters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/werebear.net\/main\/blog\/2023\/10\/30\/haunted-waters\/","title":{"rendered":"Haunted Waters"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When I was about nine years old, my family moved from a small, rural town in Massachusetts to Dhahran, Saudi Arabia. As you might expect, that was quite a culture shock for a young American kid. I\u2019ll probably write a post about my time overseas one of these days. But there\u2019s one aspect of that experience in particular on my mind: Halloween.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Living in a majority-Muslim country comes with unique challenges. Your access to pork products is extremely limited. Alcohol is out of the question. And Christian holidays like Easter and Christmas cannot be celebrated openly in public. Halloween, however, could be celebrated openly! My family often got the impression that Arabs found the whole affair funny. And believe it or not, even in Saudi Arabia, we had trick-or-treating!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dhahran looks and feels like an alien abducted a suburban Arizona town and dropped it in the Middle East. Although the city has continued to evolve over the years, not much has changed in that regard. If you\u2019d like a visual example, someone recorded a liesurely drive through Dhahran\u2019s \u201cMain Camp\u201d area.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Saudi Aramco Main Camp\" width=\"1778\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/m8I8PMXG93s?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">A drive-through of Dhahran\u2019s \u201cMain Camp\u201d area.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Now imagine those streets at night on Halloween. In the 80s, we Gen X kids walked from house to house and trick-or-treated much as we would\u2019ve in the United States. Only I\u2019m originally from a very rural community, and back in the 80s, there really wasn\u2019t anywhere TO trick-or-treat in my neck of the woods. At the time, my home town was so small that it technically qualified as a village. So the whole phenomenon was new and amazing to me as a nine-year-old. Ironically, I didn\u2019t get to experience that part of American culture firsthand until I left the country.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This holiday has always held a special place in my heart, and it always will. So to this day, I have traditions of my own. One of them is watching a horror movie each day in October all the way through Halloween. Another one is carving a jack-o\u2019-lantern and keeping it lit until morning the next day. As I write this, it\u2019s October 30th, 2023. Just one more day until Halloween. I\u2019ve kept pace with my movie viewing schedule \u2014 and sometimes exceeded it. And tonight I carved my jack-o\u2019-lantern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tomorrow, I\u2019ll hand out candy to the neighborhood kids. When you\u2019re an adult, your relationship with Halloween changes. It\u2019s your turn to \u201cpay it forward\u201d for all the kids enjoying their own door-to-door adventures. With everything that\u2019s happening in the world right now, I\u2019m more than happy to bring some <em>fun<\/em> darkness into people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Happy Halloween, folks! Enjoy yourselves\u2026 but don\u2019t linger in the shadows <em>too<\/em> long.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-id=\"1165\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8334.jpeg?resize=1024%2C768&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"My jack-o\u2019-lantern for 2023! (Uncarved pumpkin.)\" class=\"wp-image-1165\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8334.jpeg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8334.jpeg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-id=\"1166\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8335.jpeg?resize=1024%2C768&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"My jack-o\u2019-lantern for 2023! (Carved pumpkin and guts.)\" class=\"wp-image-1166\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8335.jpeg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8335.jpeg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-id=\"1169\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8336.jpeg?resize=1024%2C768&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"My jack-o\u2019-lantern for 2023! (Carved pumpkin and guts, closer.)\" class=\"wp-image-1169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8336.jpeg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8336.jpeg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-id=\"1168\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8340.jpeg?resize=1024%2C768&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"My jack-o\u2019-lantern for 2023! (Carved pumpkin no light.)\" class=\"wp-image-1168\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8340.jpeg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8340.jpeg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-id=\"1170\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8344.jpeg?resize=1024%2C768&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"My jack-o\u2019-lantern for 2023! (Carved pumpkin, red light.)\" class=\"wp-image-1170\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8344.jpeg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8344.jpeg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-id=\"1167\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8343.jpeg?resize=1024%2C768&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"My jack-o\u2019-lantern for 2023! (Carved pumpkin, blue-and-green light.)\" class=\"wp-image-1167\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8343.jpeg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/werebear.net\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/IMG_8343.jpeg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Halloween is my favorite holiday. It never fails to make me nostalgic for all kinds of things from my past. This year in particular, I\u2019ve been reflecting on some of those experiences.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"This Halloween has me feeling nostalgic. 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